Developmental Domain 1: Social and Emotional Development

Attachment RelationshipsAR

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    Children form secure attachment relationships with caregivers who are emotionally available, responsive, and consistent in meeting their needs.

    1. 1

      Birth to 9 monthsAR.1

      1. 1

        Establishes, maintains, and disengages eye contactAR.1.1

      2. 2

        Responds to caregiver(s) by smiling and cooingAR.1.2

      3. 3

        Seeks comfort from a familiar caregiverAR.1.3

      4. 4

        Imitates familiar adults’ gestures and sounds AR.1.4

      5. 5

        Demonstrates preference for familiar adultsAR.1.5

      6. 6

        Exhibits separation anxiety , e.g., does not want to be held by another person when being held by primary caregiver AR.1.6

    2. 2

      7 months to 18 monthsAR.2

      1. 2

        Attempts to change the situation when separation anxiety occurs, e.g., follows caregiver(s) when he or she leaves the roomAR.2.2

      2. 1

        Distinguishes between primary caregivers and others AR.2.1

      3. 3

        Uses social referencing with caregiver(s) when in uncertain situations, e.g., will glance at caregiver’s face for cues on how to respond to an unfamiliar person or new situationAR.2.3

      4. 4

        Uses key adults as a “secure base” when exploring the environmentAR.2.4

      5. 5

        Exhibits stranger anxiety and concern in presence of an unknown person or a new situationAR.2.5

      6. 6

        Seeks comfort from caregiver(s) and/or a familiar object, e.g., blanket, stuffed animalAR.2.6

      7. 7

        Initiates and maintains interactions with caregiver(s)AR.2.7

    3. 3

      16 months to 24 monthsAR.3

      1. 1

        Shows an emotional connection with familiar adults other than the primary caregiverAR.3.1

      2. 2

        Uses imitation and pretend play to make sense of relationships, e.g., uses a toy to “brush” hair, or feeds and rocks a dollAR.3.2

      3. 3

        Plays physically farther away from primary caregiver with increasing confidence; moves closer as neededAR.3.3

      4. 4

        Seeks physical closeness when distressedAR.3.4

      5. 5

        Actively seeks emotional responses from caregiver(s) by waving, hugging, and cryingAR.3.5

    4. 4

      21 months to 36 monthsAR.4

      1. 1

        Uses glances and words to stay connected, without having to be physically near or touching the caregiverAR.4.1

      2. 2

        Initiates activities that are meaningful in the relationship, e.g., brings over a favorite book to be read togetherAR.4.2

      3. 3

        Communicates thoughts, feelings, and plans to familiar adultsAR.4.3

      4. 4

        Seeks adult assistance with challengesAR.4.4

      5. 5

        Separates with assistance from attachment figure with minimal anxietyAR.4.5

Emotional ExpressionEE

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    Children demonstrate an awareness of and the ability to identify and express emotions.

    1. 1

      Birth to 9 monthsEE.1

      1. 1

        Uses facial expressions and sounds to get needs met, e.g., cries, smiles, gazes, coosEE.1.1

      2. 2

        Expresses emotions through sounds and gestures, e.g., squeals, laughs, clapsEE.1.2

      3. 3

        Demonstrates discomfort, stress, or unhappiness through body language and sounds, e.g., arches back, moves head, criesEE.1.3

    2. 2

      7 months to 18 monthsEE.2

      1. 1

        Expresses wants with intentionality, e.g., pushes an unwanted object out of the way, reaches for a familiar adult when wanting to be carriedEE.2.1

      2. 2

        Expresses fear by crying or turning toward caregiver(s) for comfortEE.2.2

      3. 3

        Shows anger and frustration, e.g., cries when a toy is taken awayEE.2.3

      4. 4

        Recognizes and expresses emotion toward a familiar person, e.g., shows emotion by hugging a siblingEE.2.4

    3. 3

      16 months to 24 monthsEE.3

      1. 1

        Demonstrates anger and frustration through a wide range of physical, vocal, and facial expressions, e.g., temper tantrumsEE.3.1

      2. 2

        Expresses pride, e.g., smiles, claps, or says, “I did it” after completing a taskEE.3.2

      3. 3

        Attempts to use a word to describe feelings to a familiar adultEE.3.3

      4. 4

        Expresses wonder and delight while exploring the environment and engaging others EE.3.4

    4. 4

      21 months to 36 monthsEE.4

      1. 1

        Attempts to use words to describe feelings and names emotionsEE.4.1

      2. 2

        Acts out different emotions while engaged in pretend play, e.g., cries when pretending to be sad, jumps up and down for excitementEE.4.2

      3. 3

        Begins to express complex emotions such as pride, embarrassment, shame, and guiltEE.4.3

      4. 4

        Engages in play to express emotion, e.g., draws a picture for a caregiver because he or she misses them, hides a “monster” in a box due to a fearEE.4.4

Relationship with AdultsRA

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    Children demonstrate the desire and develop the ability to engage, interact, and build relationships with familiar adults. 

    1. 1

      Birth to 9 monthsRA.1

      1. 1

        Uses signals to communicate needs, e.g., crying, body language, and facial expressions RA.1.1

      2. 2

        Attempts to engage both unfamiliar and familiar adultsRA.1.2

      3. 3

        Engages in social interactions with adults through smiles, coos, and eye contactRA.1.3

      4. 4

        Demonstrates preference for familiar adults, e.g., reaches hands out to signal for caregiver(s)RA.1.4

      5. 5

        Cautious of unfamiliar adultsRA.1.5

      6. 6

        Begins to engage in simple, back-and-forth interactions with a familiar adult, e.g., plays “peek-a-boo,” babbles in response to an adult speaking and repeats this interactionRA.1.6

    2. 2

      7 months to 18 monthsRA.2

      1. 1

        Looks for caregiver’s response in uncertain situationsRA.2.1

      2. 2

        Engages with adults during play, e.g., bangs on a toy drum and repeats action after an adult completes the same actionRA.2.2

      3. 3

        Uses key adults as a “secure base” when exploring the environmentRA.2.3

      4. 4

        Uses “social referencing” when encountering new experiences, e.g., glances at a caregiver’s face for cues on how to respond to an unfamiliar person or unknown objectRA.2.4

      5. 5

        Draws a familiar adult into an interaction, e.g., hands a book or toy to engage in together RA.2.5

    3. 3

      16 months to 24 monthsRA.3

      1. 1

        Builds emotional connections with other familiar adults, in addition to primary caregiver(s)RA.3.1

      2. 2

        Seeks adult assistance with challenges but may refuse help and say “no”RA.3.2

      3. 3

         Responds to guidance, e.g., places the shape into the shape sorter after caregiver demonstrates how toRA.3.3

      4. 4

        Imitates a familiar adult‘s actions, e.g., waves hands around while pretending to talk on the phone after seeing caregiver make those same actions RA.3.4

    4. 4

      21 months to 36 monthsRA.4

      1. 1

        Imitates adult roles and activities through pretend play, e.g., goes grocery shopping, or prepares a mealRA.4.1

      2. 2

        Initiates activities that are meaningful in the relationship, e.g., brings over a favorite book to be read togetherRA.4.2

      3. 3

        Communicates thoughts, feelings, questions, and plans to both familiar and unfamiliar adultsRA.4.3

      4. 4

        Demonstrates desire to control or make decisions independent from adults RA.4.4

Self-ConceptSC

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    Children develop identity of self.

    1. 1

      Birth to 9 monthsSC.1

      1. 1

        Demonstrates interest in faces and voices of othersSC.1.1

      2. 2

        Explores his or her own hands and feetSC.1.2

      3. 3

        Recognizes own name, e.g., looks up, or turns head toward a person who is saying his/her nameSC.1.3

      4. 4

        Recognizes and prefers familiar adults and siblings, e.g., leans toward caregiver when being held by someone else SC.1.4

      5. 5

        Initiates interactions with others, e.g., imitates actions, plays peek-a-booSC.1.5

      6. 6

        Begins to display the beginning of joint attention, e.g., points to objects and peopleSC.1.6

      7. 7

        Demonstrates separation anxiety, e.g., cries when caregiver leaves the room SC.1.7

    2. 2

      7 months to 18 monthsSC.2

      1. 1

        Shows awareness of significant people by calling them by name, e.g., “papa”SC.2.1

      2. 2

        Engages in joint attention with familiar others, e.g., shares in looking and engaging with objects and people  SC.2.2

      3. 3

        Responds with vocalizations or gestures when hears nameSC.2.3

      4. 4

        Demonstrates interest in looking in mirrorSC.2.4

      5. 5

        Uses gestures and some words to express feelings, e.g., “no” SC.2.5

      6. 6

        Uses social referencing to guide actions and begins to test limitsSC.2.6

      7. 7

        Points to and identifies body parts on him or herself, e.g., points to eyes when asked, “Where are your eyes?” SC.2.7

    3. 3

      16 months to 24 monthsSC.3

      1. 1

        Demonstrates awareness of self, e.g., touches own nose in the mirrorSC.3.1

      2. 2

        Able to express his or her nameSC.3.2

      3. 3

        Refers to self with gestures and languageSC.3.3

      4. 4

        Demonstrates understanding and use of concepts through words such as “mine,” “me,” and “you” SC.3.4

      5. 5

        Points to self in images and other types of mediaSC.3.5

      6. 6

        Frequently tests limitsSC.3.6

      7. 7

        Asks for help from familiar adults but may begin to attempt to complete tasks autonomouslySC.3.7

    4. 4

      21 months to 36 monthsSC.4

      1. 1

        Names people in his/her family and shares stories about themSC.4.1

      2. 2

        Asks for help from familiar adults but pushes away and refuses helpSC.4.2

      3. 3

        Incorporates roles of family members in playSC.4.3

      4. 4

        Begins to show an interest in describing physical characteristics, e.g., “I have blue eyes”SC.4.4

      5. 5

        Demonstrates preferences, e.g., “I want the green cup”SC.4.5

      6. 6

        Communicates feelings, e.g., may say “I’m sad,” or stomps feet when madSC.4.6

      7. 7

        Begins to understand concept of possession, e.g., “yours,” “hers,” “his”SC.4.7

Relationship with PeersRP

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    Children demonstrate the desire and develop the ability to engage and interact with other children. 

    1. 1

      Birth to 9 monthsRP.1

      1. 1

        Demonstrates effort to interact and engage, e.g., uses eye contact, coos, smilesRP.1.1

      2. 2

        Observes other children in the environmentRP.1.2

      3. 3

        Shows interest in both familiar and unfamiliar peersRP.1.3

      4. 4

        Cries when hearing another child cryRP.1.4

      5. 5

        Reaches out to touch another child RP.1.5

      6. 6

        Attempts to imitate actions, e.g., bangs a toyRP.1.6

    2. 2

      7 months to 18 monthsRP.2

      1. 1

        Shows interest in another child by moving closer, e.g., rolls, crawls, or walks toward the child RP.2.1

      2. 2

        Imitates actions of another child, e.g., rolling a carRP.2.2

      3. 3

        Engages in a simple, reciprocal game such as “pat-a-cake” RP.2.3

      4. 4

        Begins to engage in parallel play, in closer proximity to other children but no interaction is attemptedRP.2.4

    3. 3

      16 months to 24 monthsRP.3

      1. 1

        Gestures in order to communicate a desire to play near a peerRP.3.1

      2. 2

        Demonstrates enthusiasm around other childrenRP.3.2

      3. 3

        Expresses frustration when another child takes something away from him or her, e.g., a toyRP.3.3

      4. 4

        Begins to engage in simple reciprocal interactions, e.g., rolls a ball back and forthRP.3.4

      5. 5

        Demonstrates a preference for parallel play, e.g., plays next to other children with similar toys with little or no interactionRP.3.5

    4. 4

      21 months to 36 monthsRP.4

      1. 1

        Demonstrates a preference toward select peers RP.4.1

      2. 2

        Becomes frustrated with peers, e.g., yells “no” if a peer tries to interfere in something he or she is engaged in RP.4.2

      3. 3

        Participates in sharing, when promptedRP.4.3

      4. 4

        Communicates with other children in different settings, e.g., talks to a peer during snack time, or hands a peer a book  RP.4.4

      5. 5

        Begins to engage in more complex play with two or three childrenRP.4.5

EmpathyE

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    Children demonstrate an emerging ability to understand someone else’s feelings and to share in the emotional experiences of others.

    1. 1

      Birth to 9 monthsE.1

      1. 1

        Watches and observes adults and other childrenE.1.1

      2. 2

        Cries when hearing another infant cryE.1.2

      3. 3

        Responds to interactions from caregiver(s), e.g., smiles when caregiver smiles, looks toward a caregiver when he or she shakes a rattleE.1.3

      4. 4

        Shows signs of separation anxiety, e.g., protests when a caregiver leaves the roomE.1.4

      5. 5

        Begins to share in simple emotions by reading facial and gestural cues, e.g., repeats activities that make others laughE.1.5

    2. 2

      7 months to 18 monthsE.2

      1. 1

        Smiles with intention to draw out a smile from a familiar other E.2.1

      2. 2

        Uses social referencing with caregiver(s) when in uncertain situations, e.g., glances at a caregiver’s face for cues on how to respond to an unfamiliar person or new situationE.2.2

      3. 3

        Reacts to a child who is upset by observing or moving physically closer to the childE.2.3

      4. 4

        Shares in both positive and negative emotions with caregiver(s), e.g., shares in wonders, amazement, delight, and disappointmentE.2.4

      5. 5

        Begins to have a greater awareness of own emotions, e.g., says or gestures “no” to refuse, squeals and continues to laugh when happyE.2.5

    3. 3

      16 months to 24 monthsE.3

      1. 1

         Imitates comforting behaviors from caregiver(s), e.g., pats or hugs a child when upset E.3.1

      2. 2

        Recognizes some of his or her own emotions, e.g., grabs a comfort object when sadE.3.2

      3. 3

        Demonstrates awareness of different emotions and feelings during play, e.g., rocks a baby doll and whispers “shhh” E.3.3

      4. 4

        Shares in and communicates simple emotions of others, e.g., “mama sad”, “papa happy” E.3.4

    4. 4

      21 months to 36 monthsE.4

      1. 1

        Communicates how other children may be feeling and why, e.g., states that a peer is sad because his or her toy was taken awayE.4.1

      2. 2

        Responds to a child in distress in an attempted manner to make that child feel better, e.g., gives a crying child a hug, uses soothing words, or uses distractionE.4.2

      3. 3

        Shares in and shows an emotional response for peers’ feelings, e.g., may show concern for a child who is hurt, or smile for a child who is happy and jumping up and downE.4.3

Frequently asked questions

What grade levels do these standards cover?
PRE-K